May 25, 2011
Hump day. This morning, while trying to snag time for a break to lunch with good folks, Jesse said something to the effect of
“Hump days are generally good for people…you’re caught up from the weekend… but still have the rest of the week ahead of you.”
Sage advice. Made it to the middle of the week and I’m so very very looking forward to the long weekend. Last weekend seems so long ago already, and as I think back to it, it definitely had a theme: Family.
We started Saturday with a birthday BBQ for Mama Wang. The scrumpdiddlyumptious meal was prepared by her brother, local chinese chef extraordinaire Uncle 2. Uncle 2 and Auntie 2 came to the US years ago, but like many immigrant families they had to leave behind a son in China, and are eagerly awaiting for the man to open the country’s front door for him.
I can’t imagine how difficult it must be to so severely be separated from your family without the ability to easily see them in person. Thankfully though, we live in the fewchar, where cars fly, pills substitute for food, and we can see whoever we want via fancy moving pictures. Almost.
Uncle 2 and Auntie 2 have a webcam, but haven’t been able to get it to work. I took a stab at trying to get it going, and after navigating many many menus displayed only in chinese, I blindly pointed and clicked my way to success!
The picture doesn’t fully capture the erupting excitement, but I think it can succinctly be summed up in the words of Pop Wang:
“All this… IS FREE!”
After the BBQ, we headed to Bremerton to visit Mama Jocson. About 2 years ago, I lost my dad suddenly, and around the anniversary of his passing the fam gets together to pray. And I have a big fam. This year had a little splash of extra special thrown in for good measure…
About 22 years ago, the last of my dad’s siblings moved to the US, and moved in with us. He brought with him his wife and 3 kids, and they moved in with us into a tiny nondescript Bremerton rambler. Legit right? Only one problem. He has 4 kids.
Like Uncle 2 and Auntie 2 above, they had to leave behind a son. And a daughter in law. And what eventually was 4 grandkids. This past weekend, thanks to the great folks up north, we were finally able to reconvene this side of the fam.
May 8, 2011
It’s been one crazybusypacked weekend, but refreshingly, about half the crazybusy that packed this weekend was celebration-oriented. Part of the reason for festivities, of course, is Mother’s Day here in the US.
This year though, I get to celebrate Mothers’ Day. Yes, this year I have two mothers for this day.
This is Mama Wang. The wifey and I only recently married last year, but Mama Wang never once failed to treat me like anything less than her own over the past few years since moment zero. She doesn’t speak English, and I don’t speak Mandarin, but it doesn’t get in the way of her constant knowing smiles, the way she never lets a glass or plate go empty the way a mother wouldn’t, or the care with which she tries to anticipate wants (and address them before they become needs).
Meet Mama Jocson. I was born at a very very young age due to many many hours and this lady. Officially her profession was registered nurse, but she’s a mom through and through. She’s just the type that knows how to take care of others better than she does of herself. Talk to most people about their childhood, and they’ll tell you about the countless hours they spent with their best friend, the adventures they have, and the fun they had playing for ever and ever. Me? — The time I spent with my mom is rivaled only by the amount of hours I spent absorbing the TV’s warm radiation. I couldn’t ask for a better mom (though I’ve been known to often and frequently ask for a better TV).
Curious for more fun facts about the moms? Last year for our wedding reception, the wifey and I put together a video we shared with our guest to honor our parents. Thanks to Al Gore and the power of the internets, I can now share things like that as easy as one could whip out photo albums years ago that relived their their special day.